Girl, Give Yourself Grace (PT 1)
Understanding Self-Unkindness and Self-Compassion: How harsh self-talk harms us and how practicing mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness (self-compassion) can stop self-unkindness and improve wellbeing.
Honest, warm, no-jargon articles on mental health, burnout, self-esteem, and relationships — written for young Nigerian women, by people who get it.

Understanding Self-Unkindness and Self-Compassion: How harsh self-talk harms us and how practicing mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness (self-compassion) can stop self-unkindness and improve wellbeing.

In the first part of this piece, we explored self-unkindness and self-compassion and its 3 doorways according to Dr. Kristin Neff: self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness. In this part, we will look at practical tips on practicing self-compassion.

To be romantically independent, you would need to put in the work to generate love and romance on your own, and if someone offers you genuine romance, you’re able to detect and accept it. But how exactly do you generate your own romance?

My argument, is that more women need to become romantically independent. We have done great work in becoming financially independent, but now, it’s time to move on to freedom in other areas too, one of which is romance.
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